I had a long discussion with an historian friend of mine recently.. I told him to put things in context of 1880s to get a good idea of life. The ideals, thoughts, nature, and human interaction was barbaric compared to 2013! Since we are still continuing as a culture, our ideals are similar to what was in 1880s. As much as it is the same, things are different.
in 2013,the average height of a man is only 5'8". In 1880, the avg height was 5'6" for all men. Now account for apaches living in their environment, their nutrition was not maxed out so they didn't reach the full height spectrum! In 1880' the average age expectancy was only 40 years. Do you think the apaches exceeded those numbers? Sure there are few that exceeded those figures but law of averages has to be looked at.
Some will question the name taza... Yes it means big guy. But when you think of it it terms of 2013, you think of 6'4" 260 lbs. well when u think of it in 1870, it was for a big guy in terms of weight. There were only a few large size individuals especially apaches who had to run daily as part of daily culture. Apaches are very descriptive with their names. You must ask yourselves, do the apaches have a word for tall guy in their language? You darn right they did. And they have a word for big. They have a word for fat. They have a word for skinny. Every imaginable description, they had a word for it. But i guess don't take my word for it. What do i know about the language.
I am going to be frank here and say it straight. If i upset you, so be it. I aint here to be your friend. i am trying to help you understand Chiricahua culture, the true history. I am an Chiricahua Apache. As for several others on the board also. We have an upward battle dealing with books and hollywood stereotyping on our culture. 75% of gibberish on chiricahua apaches out there is nonsense! There are fake indians, other indians and people of color trying to be us. Trying to be me. Im upset with it. Its full of baloney! As i told a german "historian" this month that came to mescalero... Do you want to know the truth or are you going to continue to feed me some book? As asa daklugie told eve ball, do you want to hear it from me or you want to believe some second hand writer? Ive been biting my tongue for a long time on this... But i believe enough is enough.
Just as with the courts of law, you want to find the best supporting evidence to help you. If ONE document has that support you may need, its off to the races and their is no changing your mind. THESE WORDS BEST REFLECT of how I feel at times yet I am not as good with my words as other Chiricahuas.
90% on this board knows apache from what they have read whether it be one book or 100 books. 5% know apaches because they have been around the culure such as a trip. The other 5% are true blooded apaches trying to help you understand. I am tired of hollywood trying to tell me and my family how i should be. I am tired of books trying to make me someone else. I am not a bloodthirsty savage hostile with killing on my mind day and night!
There are wonderful sources on this board... Mainly Mithlo, that will help you out. Not because he is a nice guy(i have never met him) but because he wants it right for the future. He knows his stuff. This new book by alicia... Has many wonderful names as sources, many of these people i knew of personally. Not a name in a book. I know of thier children and childrens children.
As avid historians on apaches as anyone in the world, you might consider to open your mind up just a little bit on what we are sharing with you because what chirichauas share with you now is for a purpose. To help you better understand the chiricahua. And we dont share it very often with everyone. Especially with randam people on the internet.
Respectfully,
Penjady